So, why all this self-denial and funeral for friends? It may seem morbid if we don’t understand the purpose behind it. What is that purpose? It is so that we can live a new life in Christ Jesus.

In Colossians 3:5-10, it says:

5 Put to death, therefore, what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. 6 On account of these, the wrath of God is coming. 7 In these, you too once walked when you were living in them. 8 But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth. 9 Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices 10 and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator.

As we explore verses that share this theme, we see that Scripture often speaks of putting to death, denying, and releasing our old nature. This indicates that it is important and a common struggle. This reveals the duality of human nature when one is born again. It is as if we are shedding our old life and learning to live in our new identity. Notice how Colossians states that you “once walked” in this way, meaning that this was your former identity—but that is no longer who you are. Therefore, put it away and start living anew.

Together, we are learning to live this new life by turning to Scripture and recognizing the contrast between the two natures so we can put the old one to death. We must do this; otherwise, death overtakes us (Romans 8:13). This is our responsibility in our walk with Christ. Jesus saves us as sinners and then empowers us to say no to sin and yes to righteousness (Galatians 5:1).

Here is a practical list provided by Nasser:

• When people are difficult, bear with them without complaining. However, if someone becomes abusive, seek Christian counsel immediately.
• When they hurt you, forgive them. How much? “Just as the Lord forgave you.”
• When relationships become strained due to conflict, let your love mend the relationship.
• When you feel anxious, allow Christ’s peace to rule in your heart.
• When you are confused, let God’s word “dwell richly in you.”
• In all your actions—walking, talking, sleeping, eating, studying, working, and relating to others—do everything to honor Jesus Christ, who redeemed you.
• Finally, whether in good times or bad, always give thanks to God for His goodness and faithfulness.

Every day, we face the choice to live or to die. Who will you identify with today? How will you practically live out dying to self and being made new in Christ?

As Deuteronomy 30:19 states:

19 I call heaven and earth to witness against you today that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live.